Men struggle with the question, “What do women want?!"
Dr. Winnifred Cutler helpfully provides some answers for us in her advice to women in SEARCHING FOR COURTSHIP-in her section called “MAN, WOMAN? POWER AND RIGHTS:
“..stand tall and refuse to be knocked over by his last minute scheduling attempt. When you set standards that show a man how to treat you respectfully, you are taking charge of what happens to you. If he shows you by his behavior that he is capable of rising to the high standards you have set, you are acting to establish the necessary conditions for a wholesome, fun-filled courtship.
Civility. Mutual Respect."